Family Skinnydippers

Frequently Asked Questions

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Why would I or anyone else want to be naked?

The extremely short answer is, because it's comfortable, because it's physically and emotionally healthy, because it's educational, because it improves body acceptance and self-image, because there's nothing immoral or lewd about it when done with the right frame of mind, and because it improves relationships among human beings.

For more in-depth articles that describe these benefits, visit our Why Nudity? section.

Isn't it illegal to be naked?

That depends on which jurisdiction you live in. Laws vary from state to state, from county to county, from city to city. Generally, public nudity tends to be illegal, but nudity done in private situations or in designated areas that accept nudity is not. Intent often makes a difference. If your intent in being nude is to be lewd or offensive to others, that is virtually always illegal. If your intent is innocent, there are places where that is not illegal.

We believe laws that define mere nudity as lewd, obscene, indecent, and illegal are bad laws which criminalize the very existence of the human body and cause many of the problems that they claim to protect us from. Behavior that is lewd, indecent, threatening, etc., whether nude or not, should definitely be illegal, but to criminalize the mere existence of the human body is a violation of personal liberties and downright foolishness.

Isn't it immoral to be nude?

That depends on your moral code. Generally speaking, moral codes teach that you should not be casually sexual with others unless you're married to or at least have some commitment with a person. The reason why people believe nudity is immoral is because they believe nudity is always sexual.

This is a big lie. The fact is that nudity is not sexual unless we choose to make it sexual. Most people don't know that nudity can be nonsexual, or don't believe it, simply because they've never experienced nonsexual nudity. But thousands upon thousands of people every day prove that nudity can be nonsexual by living it. It's not an opinion that nudity can be nonsexual--it's a demonstrable fact.

Isn't nudity against religion?

We can't speak for every religion beause we aren't familiar with every religion. But we are familiar with the Judeo-Christian belief systems. Most people believe that nudity is against Judeo-Christian beliefs. And it's true that sexualized nudity outside of marriage is against these beliefs. But nonsexual nudity is not, even though people assume it is. They assume it is because they think all nudity is sexual. It is not. And that nudity which is not sexual or demeaning to people is not against Judeo-Christian doctrine. Nothing in the Bible preaches against it. There is no commandment: "Thou shalt not be naked."

Isn't nudity dangerous? What about sexual predators?

Sexual predators are dangerous whether people are clothed or nude. The vast majority of sexual crimes do not start out with anyone being nude. It's a dangerous illusion that clothing protects us from such things--dangerous because we think we are safer while clothed than we really are.

The truth is, being nude can make you safer because you're more on your guard. You're not relying on the illusion of protection you think clothing gives you. You would be foolish to walk alone down a dark alley while nude. Everyone knows that, so no one would do it. But you'd be foolish walking alone down a dark alley while clothed too. Yet people will on occasion do that when clothed.

Parents who bring their children to a nude beach to skinnydip will keep a sharp eye on their children and be suspicious of anyone giving them undue attention, because their children are nude. Yet children with swimsuits on are no safer than the nude children. So the nude children whose parents are even more vigilant because their chidlren are nude are actually safer than the children with swimsuits on, whose parents are subconsciously relying on the clothing to help protect them.

People are not safe from sexual predators whether clothed or nude. But being nude can help us be more vigilant and therefore safer, because we're not fooling ourselves into thinking our clothing protects us.

Isn't clothing a good protection against weather or dangerous activities?

Yes, it is, and in those situations we recommend you wear clothing.

What if I just don't like being naked?

Then don't be naked. But there are people who do like to be naked. Why shouldn't they also be allowed to dress how they want?

Isn't a desire to be naked just exhibitionism?

No. Exhibitionism is a desire to get cheap thrills out of shocking people. It has sexual origins. People can choose to be nude for many reasons, many of them being perfectly innocent and wholesome reasons. It's rude and prejudicial to assume one ugly motive for everyone who likes to be nude.

Isn't nudism just a front for swingers?

Sadly, there are groups that call themselves nudists or naturists who are really just swingers groups. But they are counterfeit nudists. True nudists do not espouse that lifestyle. Family Skinnydippers absolutely rejects that lifestyle and are disgusted at those who taint the words nudism and naturism to disguise who they really are.

We do not tolerate any kind of sexual behavior in the family-safe environment we create.

Won't people be sexually aroused at the sight of nudity?

Perhaps. People are also sexually aroused at the sight of an attractive person who is clothed. Many of the fashions of today, especially for women, are designed to induce sexual arousal, not prevent it. Sexual arousal can happen among human beings any time, any place. Nudity is not required. In fact, nudity tends to diffuse sexual arousal, because it doesn't create mystery and curiosity over the human body.

People who are not used to seeing nudity, or used to seeing it only in sexual contexts, may be aroused at the sight of it. But it's surprising how fast that wears off when opportunities to see nudity are more common. Many people have remarked that one of the most un-erotic places you can visit is a nudist resort.

Wouldn't public nudity disturb the peace, or otherwise disrupt society?

At first it would, because people are not used to seeing it. But that would wear off surprisingly quickly, and it would become a non-event.

It's an irritating irony that the anti-nudity laws which claim to protect us from the evils of nudity actually cause the evils of nudity. Those laws make it so we can't see nudity regularly, so it becomes a shocking and disturbing thing to us. Without those laws, we wouldn't need those laws to protect us.

A law which causes the thing it supposedly protects us from is a bad law.

But I'm offended at nudity. I just don't want to see it.

Forgive us for being rude here, but our response is, so what? That's the point of a free society, to give people the freedom to do what they want, even if it offends others. Our freedoms do not allow us to harm others, but in all seriousness, what harm comes to you simply by seeing a human body? You choose to be offended--no objective harm is coming to you.

A lot of people don't like seeing piercings all over someone's face and body. They consider it offensive. They don't want to see it. Again, so what? It's a person's right to choose that for him or herself. If we don't like it, that's our problem. We can just turn our face away and not look.

People should have the right to not drape fabric over their own bodies if they don't want to. Why should you be allowed to rob them of their freedom to dress in a natural state just because you don't like it?

Doesn't it go against all human codes of decency throughout history to be naked in front of others?

Actually that's simply not true. There have been lots of societies in the history of human beings, both primitive and advanced, where public nudity was accepted. The current extreme aversion to nudity in America today is actually uncommon in history. We are the abberation, not societies that accept nudity to one degree or another.

Okay, if adults want to be naked, let them. But isn't it harmful to children to see nudity or to be nude?

This is the commonly held belief, even among some so-called experts. But there is absolutely no concrete evidence to back it up. In fact, the exact opposite is true. The right kind of nudity under the right circumstances is a healthy thing for children. It's educational for them, it's healthy for their emotional development, it prepares them for a lifetime of living among human beings. And it's downright fun. Children love to be nude. It feels good. It's that "barefoot feeling all over."

Children are natural nudists. They have to be threatened and shamed into wearing clothes. In the process, they learn shame over their bodies. Why do otherwise loving parents even want to teach their children shame over their bodies?

Adults can recapture the innocence of youth by becoming nude themselves. It's a marvelous relief from the burdens and masks of modern adult life. It can be an exhilarating and liberating experience. It's like returning to the days of Adam and Eve in paradise.

Won't being naked a lot cause skin cancer?

You simply need to take the same precautions you would any other time you remain in the sun. Let's face it, many swimsuits don't cover much more skin than being nude.

But people who are often nude have one big advantage over people who remain clothed all the time. It's much easier for someone to spot a developing skin cancer on a nude body early enough for treatment. Skin cancer can be deadly--yet it's the most easily treated and survivable cancer if spotted early.

What about mosquitos, ticks, etc.?

Biting bugs will bite you whether you wear clothes or not. Being nude may offer more skin for them to bite, but that just means you need to protect more skin in the same way you would protect yourself anyway. And when it comes to ticks, nudity is actually safer. Ticks like to tuck themselves into warm, dark, protected places, like clothing. If you're nude, a companion can spot a tick climbing up you easily and just brush it off.

But I'm fat.

Join the club. Who isn't? Obesity is an epidemic in America. It would be wise of you to do something about it for your health.

But in the meantime, the whole point of chaste social nudity is to accept human bodies as they are, in all their shapes and sizes. Feeling ashamed, embarrassed, or guilty about your body won't change anything. It just makes you miserable. Accept who you are at this point in your life and love yourself. Set goals to change things you'd like to change, then just enjoy life with whatever body you have now. You'll find lots of company among people who also have bodies that don't fit the unrealistic ideal of beauty supermodels bamboozle us into accepting.

Besides, fat bodies look better nude than squished into clothing that creates unnatural bulges. Furthermore, your clothes aren't hiding anything. People can see how fat you are whether you're wearing clothes or not. So why fool yourself into thinking clothing does hide it? Just accept who you are and enjoy life.

You will find that people who are comfortable enough with their own bodies to be nude in front of others are also very nonjudgmental and accepting of other people. No one will think bad of your extra pounds--especially since most of them have extra pounds of their own. You may find it much easier to lose those extra pounds if you stop stressing over having them.

Isn't people being naked together just a form of pornography?

No, it's the antidote to pornography.

People train themselves to have a sexual reaction to pornography because society teaches us to see all nudity as sexual. But much of the attraction to pornography, especially in the beginning, is mere curiosity over what a nude body looks like. If we were to see nude bodies on a regular basis, there would be no curiosity, and the cycle that can degenerate into an addiction to pornography would never get started.

Children who are raised as nudists usually don't comprehend the attraction to pornography that their nonnudist friends seem to have. They've already seen it all--what's the big deal? And because nudity is a commonplace sight for them, they don't have the instant reaction of sexual arousal at the sight of a human body, whether live or in a magazine.

Chaste social nudity replaces the negative, sexualized, demeaning, unrealistic images of pornographic nudity with positive, wholesome, innocent, realistic images of the human body.

But all nudity is pornographic!

Sorry to be rude again, but that's just plain dumb. And a destructive attitude to take. It trivializes the definition of pornography. Anyone who can't tell the difference between a stripper gyrating around a pole in front of leering, aroused men and a family innocently skinnydipping together is someone who has a seriously warped attitude about life.

But I don't want the sexuality of the human body to be diffused. I like the sexual rush I get when I see a nude body.

Thank you for revealing your true spots to us. What you're saying is you like to see the human body as a sexual object for your gratification. Do we need to elaborate on the negative aspects of that attitude?

Sexuality that is an expression of love shouldn't need the human body to be a sex object for arousal to happen. Arousal will come from the closeness, the intimacy, the caring, the relationship that exists between two people who love each other. Not from lust for an object of flesh.

If chaste social nudity diffuses the sexuality of the human body to the point where people who get their kicks out of objectifying the human body have a harder time getting aroused at the mere sight of one, all we can say is--Good!

Where can I learn more about chaste social nudity?

You can read articles we have available for you that go into greater depth about the things we mentioned here. You can also check other websites that we've provided links to.

How can my family join Family Skinnydippers?

You can register for free for a basic membership.

What if I'm single? What if my family doesn't want to participate? What if we don't have kids?

We have a liberal definition of family. A family is one or more people living in the same household who are related by blood, marriage, or legal guardianship. Single people are a family of one, and we welcome them. People who are the only ones in their family who want to participate can still register their family. Children are not required to be a family, although we love having families with children join up, because we prefer to avoid teaching body shame to children in the first place rather than trying to heal it in adults.

We are Family Skinnydippers because we provide a family-safe environment for people to explore chaste social nudity. If you are willing to contribute to that family-safe environment, you are welcome, regardless of your family status.



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